As I write quite often here about sending snail mail or happy mail, and I talk about it over on Instagram and YouTube regularly, I am often getting asked where to find pen pals. As such, today I thought it would be a useful post to share a few places to connect, a guide to where to find pen pals and start sending happy mail.
If the whole concept of happy mail and pen pals is all new to you, don’t worry as I share how to start to pen pal here to get you off the mark. As soon as you are happy with all of that, you can start your search for pen pals.
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Why Have Pen Pals?
I adore putting pen to paper and writing a letter. There’s something so relaxing about it, and you do connect with people all over the country, or even all over the world. Then there’s that lovely feeling when you spy a handwritten missive in your pile of junk mail, and you just know you’ll be able to catch up on a friend’s news that day.
I write to several people, pen pals that I have found over the years in many different places – it’s funny how they come about sometimes, and now they’re friends. I also asked some people who regularly write to pen pals their reasons to have pen pals, and their answers were rather wonderful.
Sometimes you’ll naturally stumble across people like this, but to get going with pen pals, it can be handy to pop to a few sites and sign up to get snail mailing.
I love being asked where to find pen pals, as it reminds me that this is a hobby that people are increasingly looking to take up, to get back into corresponding the old-fashioned way. The pretty way! So here are a few ideas for you to try.
Where to Find Pen Pals
Pen Pal Websites
The following sites are ways to connect with and find pen pals, some are free, just check the specific details of each one…
Pen Pal World
Letter Writers Alliance
International Pen Friends
Instagram – just search the #penpalswanted hash tag and you should find plenty there!
Join our Bring Back Paper Facebook group, it’s full on happy mail folks and people are welcome to post pen pal requests there.
If you’re looking to send one-off snail mail, then please do check out Post Pals the charity helping you to ‘Post a Smile on a Sick Child’s Face’ by the sending of cards, letters, emails and little gifts to seriously ill children and their siblings in the UK.
Pen Pals for Children
I’m also a huge advocate of children having pen pals. It gives them a reason to put pen to paper, and it’s lovely for them to receive post, too. Obviously, you’ll want to be involved in this, as I’m sure you will be anyway as my girl shows me all of her post excitedly, and we pop hers in the envelopes together as we decorate them with washi tape.
My daughter’s 7 and has 4 pen pals, all from different places.
She writes to the daughter of one of my pen pals, a friend of hers that lives a few miles away and she sees a handful of times each year, a pen pal we found using a pen pal service at a festival and someone that I found for her through my friends on social media. She absolutely loves receiving letters and enjoys sitting down to write them as I’m writing mine.
Perhaps your children have friends they don’t see that often? Or you’ve friends with children that might like to write? It’s a great hobby, and I do have a Children’s Pen Pal Pack available to get them started.
Pen Pal Sign Up
I also run pen pal sign ups here several times a year (you can check this page for details of monthly activities).
They are always popular and we get a good mix of people across the world join in. Do subscribe to the blog or follow me on social media so that you spot when these sign-ups are running if you fancy getting yourself a pen pal or two, or even better, join the Bring Back Paper Club and join in the fun!
We also now have Bring Back Paper Memberships, with exclusive monthly activities, discounts and an ongoing pen pal sign up. Check it out!
Get The Pen Pal Pack Here! Here’s a little glimpse….
If you’re new to Bring Back Paper, you can find out more about it all here. You can join our Facebook group here and do ensure that you sign up to my email list below to receive news, tips, updates and activities.
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